We’ve been working on the project for a while. But finally this last weekend, we completed it. Yay! Progress!!
SPOILER ALERT! Okay, since you are my friends here on my blog, I will tell you a little secret which I would probably not mention face to face. These are attachments to our existing garage door, which are very affordable for $50 a window, and easy to install. You can do it, too! I LOVE how they look. You can honestly not tell they are not real. They took us forever to put up because we were nervous about drilling holes in our garage door just in case we didn’t like it and we ended up painting them and repainting the garage door so they all perfectly matched which took a while to get right in our baby step state of progression. We have 4 kids and a lot of other goals we are always working for so baby steps is our motto. Check out this video!
Here I added the middle trim which you can see half way up the stairs. This is the first step to adding the shadow box trim as in the next picture that I would like to add eventually. Baby steps, baby steps is what I keep telling myself.
Eventually… I want to do this. Yay, I’ve completed step one!
Recently, I have been thinking about the post I put on the Mom Made Magic Facebook page about what keeps my marriage strong. Outside of the traditional answers like date night, being kind to each other, this is an additional thing that keeps my marriage strong. And that is that I take the initiative to learn and do home fix-ups myself without having my husband always do it for me. This is helpful because 1) I recognize he already has a ton on his plate and doesn’t always want to do a home fix-up project when he is home 2) I love seeing progress and it would be hard for me to always wait on someone elses timetable for the progress I love. Now there are times I have to wait either way but there is always something I could do or learn so progress is made. Yay! Recently I scrapped and painted the deck floor and stairs. Here is a snapshot of the stairs mid project. It looks so good!
I also fixed up my older daughters room with these new bedspreads I cut and sewed from a king size bedspread. The other ones were too bulky and heavy, making it difficult to make their bed. They look really cute in real life and were only 12.50 a piece since the original king cover I got for $25. Woohoo! I think the more neutral color goes well with the wall paint as well.
One other project I have worked on this week has been making some new hair bows as well as throwing out old looking ones. I have four daughters so we use hair bows a lot and I want to keep the hair bows looking cute and nice!! I love these new stylish and felt ones.
Update two weeks later: These last two pictures make me laugh because it looks like I just made their beds. That is honestly about the extent of my progress lately… Woohoo, progress is progress! (I know they need to make their own beds, right?!) I will pick up the steam eventually but I am enjoying a lull I guess. Actually I have been working on getting people out to repair our house from some rain damage (not so fun…) and figuring out our new school schedule. More progress to come. Hang in there!
Now the older girls are back at school, the younger girls are getting more Mommy time! My kids and I are far from perfect but they honestly do pretty well and they are really good kids. It is not that I am some amazing Mother or just lucked out with even tempered kids but that I have committed to spend time with them and prioritize them each day. Like I said I am not perfect at it and I want to do better. But I can honestly say when I commit to spend time with them, really be present with them and do the activity they want to do, even when it is small for at least 15-20 min a day, they reciprocate and help me out more by listening to me better throughout the day.
It makes a huge difference when I have put in the time to build our relationship. Sometimes it’s not enjoyable at all, I get that. I have been there. But it works. Spend time with them. BE PRESENT at their level. I want to be better at this and commit to do more. Reading is the best and most convenient although it takes a little bit of effort to get them to focus in the beginning but by bringing it to their level, reading what they like and making it really exciting with your voice inflection, it will make a big difference in their behavior. 🙂 Look at those cute happy faces.