Today I did the makeup of my friend and her daughter who I do trades with for organizing help while I teach her daughter music lessons. It was a lot of fun and I was glad I was able to help her when she has helped me so much.
Trading skills with other Mom friends is super helpful. Not only is it fun to be social and be apart of each others lives but we are helping each other and additionally inspiring each other to keep up the good work. It is synergistic 1 + 1 = 5! I know this may seem sort dorky but what I am talking about is true!
For example, when this friend comes over and helps me organize my house after she leaves I want to keep going and do a little more to finish up . Also she has told me that when she goes home she feels inspired to keep organizing her own house. That or she appreciates her life of being a Mom of older kids a little more as I have spent the last hour and a half updating her on all the crazy stories of the 3-year-old drama episodes that are occurring over here. Ha ha just kidding it really isn’t that bad… well maybe partially. Check out my family blog to see what I am referring to.
Conclusion: Do Mom Trades
If you are not a Mom, do friend trades.
Additional Tip: Always err to giving more on your side of the bargain so you always feel good about it. Plus when you find you someone who does the same, you know you’ve got a golden friend.
Of course, my own daughters wanted a little makeup fix-up, too. Little Anna and Elsa…;)
Whoohoo! I have been meaning to do this for a while. I know it is not that spectacular but it is to me! My friend from my church has been coming over once a week to help me organize and in return I have been teaching music lessons to her daughter. Suffice it to say we have had a lot of fun. Plus, this organizing has inspired me to do it again on my own. Today I organized the office room my spouse and I share together and it looks soooo much better! Yes, it has been a long time since we have done this so it really needed it. Maybe 6 months or a year since a real serious dejunk organizing session?
It feels so great to have such a fresh, clean, and thought-out space again. I have found that organizing and dejunking helps me to prioritize what I am going for in life – my objectives of a space, analyze what is just clogging up my life, not-useful or low priority. Sometimes it is hard getting started but once you just bite the bullet and go for it, putting feelings aside, it is super rewarding and refreshing! Try it!!! Go organize something today even it it is just a single drawer.
You can do it!!!
Well, it seems not much “Mom Magic” is happening over here with only once a month posts but I am truly working at it! Do you ever feel like this in your life?
Although it sometimes appears we are doing the same thing day in and day out, and not much is really getting done, be patient it is. Yes, the day is framed with the routines of wake up, get the kids dressed, fed and off to school only to begin sometimes an endless list of chores, but there is more to it than that. It is not the same because each day we are a little different from the day before. We are now accompanied by the things we’ve learned from the previous day, year, and life we’ve lived so far. This has been my mantra as of late.
These last couple of months we’ve been looking for a house. We are currently renting and have been renting for the last almost four years now. It is time to get our own home. With so many choices to be made with such important details, I finally decided to make a checklist to see these houses objectively.
I share this with you in hopes that maybe this can give you an idea of how to handle your own momentous task of finding a house, deciding on a career, or ha ha even finding a spouse? Through making a checklist it has helped me define exactly what I am looking for with a prioritized weighted list. As I share my list below, keep in mind these are what is important to us and you’ll want to put in what are your preferences.
If the first 5-6 categories are not met then I won’t even go about grading the house.
Of course the extra credit points and personal scoring of each category can make a large difference. House hunting can easily take over your life I am learning but with this it gives me a way to see it in perspective, be patient, and not be driven by the emotional aspect of it all.
How it works: Once I see a house I like and it meets the top criteria then I put a number grade for how close it gets to what I’ve written in each category below. For instance if I wrote “the main level must have 80% wood floors” and it only has a small room with a wood floor on the main level then I would grade it maybe a 3 or 2 as opposed to the full 8 points it can get. I then move on down the check list grading category against what ideally I am looking for.
Okay, so I’ve heard about this idea a few times but I always discarded it. Planning Dinners for an entire month? Yeah right. That is too much work, plus how would I know would ingredients to get in advance, and what if I didn’t even feel like eating the food that was scheduled for the night. But, if it kept coming to mind as something I should try, then maybe there was something to it.
So… I decided to give it a try this month. And it has honestly been, I hate to admit it, but very helpful. It has really saved a lot of time the time I usually spend interpreting what I am feeling in the mood for and then finally deciding. I’ve found that even if I don’t really feel like eating what is planned once I start making the meal and smelling all the yummy smells and such suddenly I think actually I don’t mind eating this after all. Or I just add something on the side that is a little more of what I was in the mood for but keep the main thing I had scheduled… like adding a sweet apple salad with caramelized nuts or yummy desert to satisfy my sweet tooth I am feeling that night.
I think part of the trick is using meals that you already know and like and them only have a new recipe a couple times for the whole month. If you are still deciding what you like and do quickly as a family then maybe this isn’t for you yet. You could start with planning the meals for the week. But, if you’ve been planning the meals for the week for a while, you are probably ready for this monthly plan like me. Try it!!!
It has helped me keep one step ahead to get the slow cooker going in the afternoon and extra leftover meat that I used for a meal earlier that week for meals later in the week. For example if I made shredded chicken tacos on Tues I made to make a few extra chicken breasts that I can set aside for my the chicken pot pie for Friday. It is awesome!!!
So I no longer do this (write out dinners for the month)… but I do write out meals for the week on a small dry erase board on my fridge. I believe I got it at Target in the dollar section. For some people this may really work for you so go for it! You can do it! For me right now, one week is what I can handle. I write this to encourage you to do what you can and be cool with it even if it is the meals for one day. Good job!!! 🙂
Forget spring cleaning, January and February are the perfect months to spruce up your home with organizing and donating stuff you don’t use. There is great power in simply keeping things clean and ordered. I think we sometimes forget the magic that occurs when you are living in a clean and organized space and the reward of peace and relief that comes as a result! It is actually easier to maintain order than it is to do a huge overhaul job although it is definitely necessary every once in a while. As you can see in this picture, that is what is needed here and in several areas in my home besides this hair bow drawer. Time to get to work!
Repurpose a Shoe Holder into a Giant Accessory Organizer!!!
Yes, this is exactly what I need to get my closet organized once and for all!
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